A baby born, a baby lost

This article speaks of another type of complex loss. It is written from the perspective of a Mom who was pregnant with twins, and lost one of them at birth. Her daughter was born healthy, but her sonĀ faced insurmountable medical problems in utero, and he died immediately at birth. This Mom speaks eloquently of holding […]

Loss and Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day can be a tough day for some. Those who have lost their moms may feel intense grief as we approach this holiday. Mothers who have lost a child may also struggle to cope. Whether theĀ loss is recent or took place long ago, everyone’s grief is different, and these types of holidays or markers […]


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